Distancing Socially in Interesting Times

balancing on a log over a creek Introvert skills for interesting times

We’re all introverts now

How are you doing in these interesting times?

I’ve always been happiest balancing on a log all alone in the wilderness. So the idea of sheltering in place is pretty much heaven for me. This is a hidden reason I work to become proficient at single-handing the boat. Don’t tell Tom, but I dream of taking off for the day while he’s busy working, or on the latest part buying errand. I would anchor in an empty cove and have a little one-day writing retreat.

But I know there are many extroverts out there who thrive on groups, crowds, and constant interaction. I’ve seen them. I shake my head. It’s safe to assume all of you extroverts are facing a stiffer challenge, having become sudden homebodies, with no one to talk to.

How to be alone – Introvert skills to the rescue

Since I’m pretty good at having a good time while all alone, I have some suggestions for alleviating the cabin fever (pun intended).

  • Do yoga – stretching and aligning muscles might help with aligning a mind twisted into knots by ever-changing guidelines.
  • Avoid watching reality TV (too aspirational) and the nightly news (too aggravating.)
  • Put together puzzles – the more complex the better. It’s a way the layman can feel a little solidarity with those who are trying to sort out the problems of logistics, devise treatments and discover vaccines.
  • Put on music and dance. Personally I do this while sitting too. As I write this, I’m bopping in my chair to the Bollywood Workout on Pandora. Since I don’t speak the language the lyrics don’t intrude on my thought process.
  • Tackle those home improvement projects that have been hanging over your head. We replaced a microwave yesterday. It’s always something.
  • Take up a new hobby, or pull out that old one you’ve always meant to get back to. I’m promising myself I’ll start painting watercolors again. Very soon.
  • Learn to cook from scratch. It’s easier than some seem to think and quite fulfilling. Plus it’ll prepare you for a possible new normal in which you must cook without mixes and meal kits or starve. You might not want to start with my Shrimp and Grits, but there are a million cooking shows and websites out there to get you going.
  • Watch comedy movies. For anyone with a taste for the macabre, these two fit nicely with what we’re going through.

And of course, there is reading

I could suggest something light and fluffy to take your mind off the current crisis. But instead, I’m going to share some books that take an unflinching look at life during an outbreak. And, okay, one that’s pretty fluffy.

Ship Fever

One of the best stories I ever read is a historical novella about a doctor who works on a quarantine island off the coast of Canada.

It’s called Ship Fever and is the title story of a collection of equally worthy stories all centered around science. By Andrea Barrett, this collection won the National Book Award.

Highly recommended.

Book Cover Year of Wonders by Geraldine Books

Year of Wonders

For an exploration of what true social distancing is like, there is no better story than Year of Wonders by Geraldine Brooks.

Inspired by the true story of Eyam, an English village that voluntarily quarantined itself during the plague, Year of Wonders goes deep into the sadness of loss and the importance of community while remaining hopeful and beautiful.

Loved this book.


book cover Iris Incensed by Nancy Bartlett

Iris Incensed

My own first novel, released last month, includes a scene that takes place in Mary King’s Close, an underground section of Edinburgh, Scotland where residents were walled in during the Bubonic Plague. See the video below for a little introduction.

Iris Incensed is a comedic story, but there is a little spook factor to the scenes set in the dark below ground.

(Mary King’s Close, like all public gathering places and events, is currently closed.)



Book cover Iris All In Nancy Bartlett

Iris All In

My latest news touches on our current crisis only because I finished the edits and published the second installment of the Iris Winterbek Adventure series while social distancing last week.

The actual story of Iris All In is very social and active with gatherings and chases in crowds such as you would not see these days.

So now it qualifies as escapist fiction.


book cover Iris Everafter by Nancy Bartlett

Iris Everafter

The third book of the Iris series will be available by the end of April. Lockdown editing continues for me, but Iris is off on another adventure, continuing her life of escapade and mayhem.

No telling whether the rest of us will be out and about by the time the book is ready,in late April. Either Iris Everafter will bring another opportunity for armchair travel or it’ll be a great beach read.


Let’s Flatten the Curve

What are you doing to keep sane, enjoy your alone time and stay well? I’d love to hear what you’re up to. You can share here. We are so fortunate to have the Internet to connect us during these interesting times.

4 thoughts on “Distancing Socially in Interesting Times”

  1. If social distancing and self-quarantining make you long to travel, I suggest you pick up a copy of Nancy Bartlett’s “Iris Incensed” and accompany Iris and her daughter Amy from your armchair in a rollicking adventure through England, Ireland, Scotland and Holland. Along the way you’ll share adventure, mystery, close calls, and a little history. This is a fun read and a sweet tribute to Mom.
    –Candace

    1. Thanks Candace. It is my hope that Iris will entertain a few folks home with too much time on their hands, while also inspiring travel for when we’re all out of lockdown.

  2. Started Incensed the other day. I think the adventure series is soul sister, I can’t put down a Clive Cussler and I get the same feeling with Iris. Wonderful indeed!
    A get away on a boat is a little magic
    island. I get my alone time exercise
    walking the beach and marina, stopping occasionally to drool over
    the big Grady White with 600 Yamaha ponies out back. It’s a fresh air n brine dream of mine. Some strong days makes me hungry for oysters and I thank God
    for Kuzma’s Market.
    Thank you kindly , great work N!
    G

    1. Well right out of the gate little ole Iris gets compared to Clive Cussler heroes. That is some high-powered company! Thanks for that, it made me smile.

      I always encourage boat shopping and dreaming, no matter what the circumstances. It’s a healthy activity I take part in regularly. The Edmonds Marina is a great place for it, but I didn’t know about Kuzma’s Market. Oysters, yum!

      Be well, keep dreaming, and I’m glad you’re enjoying Iris.

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